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Simon Harvison
Oct 5, 2026
A great weekend completely spoiled by management and the appalling treatment of a vulnerable guest
What should have been a fantastic weekend at the Garner Hotel was completely overshadowed by the behaviour of management and certain members of staff on Monday, 5 October.
Up until Monday, we had thoroughly enjoyed our three-night stay. I would have happily recommended this hotel to friends and family and considered returning in the future. Unfortunately, what we witnessed on our final morning has left us with no desire to return.
During breakfast, an elderly gentleman with significant disabilities and serious mobility difficulties made his way to the breakfast area. He was informed by a female staff member wearing a headscarf that he had missed breakfast. When he attempted to respond, she simply walked away mid-sentence, leaving him visibly upset and confused.
It was genuinely distressing to witness such a vulnerable individual being treated with so little dignity, compassion or basic human decency.
My partner, understandably upset by what we had witnessed, approached the same staff member and very politely asked whether it would be possible to prepare something for the gentleman. Her request was met with scoffing and tutting. Staff then begrudgingly began preparing something for him, loudly banging plates and creating an incredibly uncomfortable atmosphere.
A simple act of kindness and a little flexibility could have made all the difference to this gentleman. Instead, he was made to feel like an inconvenience.
What happened next made the situation even more disappointing.
Shortly after my partner intervened, the manager approached our table in what felt like a retaliatory manner. In an unnecessarily accusatory tone, we were asked, “Have you paid for those coffees yet? Those are not included.”
For context, the coffee machine was situated in a public area of the hotel. Throughout our three-night stay, we had used it each morning in full view of other staff members, and at no point had anyone informed us that payment was required. We had also witnessed numerous other guests using the machine without being asked to pay.
The manager then brought a card machine directly to our table and demanded payment. We paid without hesitation, as the cost of the coffee was never the issue. It was the timing, the accusatory approach and the manner in which we were treated that made the interaction so uncomfortable.
To make matters worse, we subsequently witnessed other guests continuing to use the same machine without being approached or asked to pay.
Given the timing, immediately after my partner had spoken up on behalf of the elderly gentleman, it was difficult not to feel that we were being deliberately singled out.
What disappoints me most is that none of this needed to happen.
We had enjoyed a lovely weekend, and this could easily have been a five-star review. Instead, we left feeling deeply uncomfortable and genuinely appalled by the lack of compassion shown towards an elderly, disabled guest.
Hospitality is about more than providing a room and serving breakfast. It is about treating people with kindness, dignity and respect, particularly those who may need a little extra assistance.
I sincerely hope senior management takes this incident seriously, reviews the conduct of the staff involved and considers whether additional training in disability awareness, customer service and the treatment of vulnerable guests is required.
I would have loved to recommend this hotel and return in the future, but after witnessing the events of Monday morning, I simply cannot do so in good conscience.