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Michael Matthes
Mar 18, 2026
We bury my father on Saturday, March 21st.
He was a loving, active 72-year-old who still worked full time. He was admitted to a medical center in St. Louis approximately three weeks before his death for an acute flare of ulcerative colitis.
After unsuccessful attempts to control the flare with steroids, he was approved for biologic treatment. However, this was delayed for about two weeks due to inconclusive tuberculosis screening. He was eventually cleared after passing a skin test.
By then, his condition had significantly worsened. He required two blood transfusions and suffered from severe pain, heavy rectal bleeding, low blood pressure, poor nutrition, and unstable blood sugar.
After his first biologic infusion, doctors noted less visible blood in his stool. However, he remained extremely fatigued, weak, in pain, unable to walk to the bathroom, and had no appetite. Despite this, we were told he was improving.
The day before his death, he experienced severe, persistent nausea and repeatedly used the call button for help. There were multiple times it appeared to go unanswered. A family member went to the nurses’ station several times to request medication. When a nurse responded, the request was met with a dismissive and aggressive reply. It is deeply painful to know he spent one of his final days in distress while his calls for help went unanswered.
Three days after the biologic treatment, he passed away around 1:00 AM on March 11, 2026.
We were never told he was at risk of dying. After his death, we received conflicting accounts—one stating he was found on the floor after bleeding, another that he was found on the commode. We still have no clear or official cause of death. It has been suggested he may have collapsed while trying to reach the bathroom, lost significant blood, and suffered a cardiac event.
He had a serious cardiac history, including two prior heart attacks, multiple stents, and major vascular surgery. Despite this, he was never placed on a heart monitor during his three-week stay.
Records show he was last checked around 11:00 PM and found unresponsive near 1:00 AM. CPR was performed for about 20 minutes, and early rigor mortis was reportedly present.
Given his heart condition and repeated low blood pressure, it is concerning that he was not monitored more closely. A monitor may have alerted staff to a cardiac event.
There also appeared to be poor coordination among his care team, with inconsistent communication and no clear treatment plan.
In his final days, he was in severe pain, extremely weak, and increasingly debilitated. At times, basic care needs, including hygiene, did not appear to be met in a timely manner.
Our family believes his death raises serious concerns about patient monitoring, communication, and overall standards of care. We respectfully request a full review of the circumstances and changes to prevent this from happening to others.
He was deeply loved by his family and had many years ahead of him. His death deserves accountability.