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Havenbrook Funeral Home in Norman, OK provides funeral home, burial, veteran, memorialization, cremation and life celebration services. Call us 24/7.
Our Pre-Planning Services make it easy for you to get your express wishes down in writing, ensuring that you have the kind of memorial service you truly desire and that your friends and loved ones can have total peace of mind that they are adhering to your wishes. We host Burial Services that convey both the solemnity of the occasion, but also the joy that comes from celebrating the life of a dear loved one. We are happy to attend to all aspects of the service, and we invite our guests to linger as long as they wish, fully enjoying a special and intimate time with friends and family. For those who choose it, we also offer Cremation Services; cremation can be a meaningful way in which many families mark the death of a loved one. We offer services tailored to honor those who are military service members and veterans, as well.
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- NFNikki FranckNov 9, 20255.0Staff members were so kind and my auntie’s service was beautiful and touching.
- KWKenneth WalkerNov 8, 20255.0Very welcoming environment and establishment when you walk through the doors and the staff is very kind.
- ASAkash SinghNov 3, 20255.0They were just so astoundinglyly kind and gracious throughout everything. It made something excruciatingly hard, manageable.
- CHcalvin hangNov 3, 20255.0Had a friend who passed away. Held here and I'm glad their family did. Everyone felt how much effort the staff put in for family and friends.
- CHCheyenne HOct 30, 20253.0I took time to write this review because I didn’t want to be impulsive in the heat of the moment, but I still feel it on my heart to say something because my mother was a very opinionated woman for better or for worse, and I don’t believe she would’ve been unhappy with how her death was handled(unfortunately she passed unexpectedly and suddenly so she didn’t have anything planned ahead of time). The lady that was assigned to us seemed very helpful and empathetic when she thought the funeral home was getting $17000+ from us for my mom’s funeral. Once we found out that my stepdad’s credit score wasn’t as good as it used to be(due to his old age making him forget to pay some bills and him not even realizing until we went to the bank to get a loan) and had to choose cremation instead so it was only going to be something like $3000-$4000, the lady seemed more cold and straight to “sign this. Initial here.” Etc, etc. One younger staff member was still very gentle and had a lovely empathetic vibe towards my family so she deserves all the praise, but the older lady that was discussing most of our funeral arrangements vibe shifted strongly once we couldn’t afford a proper burial. I get it though… at the end of the day, a business is a business, after-life preparations cost money, and they need to make their money somehow. The only reason I’m rating this 3 stars and not anything lower is because they still did their job, and I don’t want my own frustrating feelings to give a terrible rating if there’s other factors involved that I just don’t understand. I know I’m grieving, and I don’t want my personal feelings to get in the way of giving a balanced review. I think the thing that bothered me the most was how angry my mother’s face looked during the visitation. She didn’t look at peace. My mom was disabled and looked in as much pain during the visitation as she did in life. When we thought we would be able to give her a proper burial, we brought a really pretty dress she liked to wear for her. I know that decaying bodies look different and I also know that in the end we weren’t able to afford the burial so maybe they just didn’t see it logical to change her into her pretty dress since it would be cremated anyway, but walking in to see my mother dressed in the hospital gown she died in while seeing her face looking smooshed, swollen, and angry(she didn’t have real teeth and it looked like they didn’t even try to make her face look like it had teeth even though they claimed they would) it made me feel a mix of negative feelings that I’m not even sure how to name or describe. My mom was self-conscious of how she looked without her teeth, and I feel she would’ve been unhappy with how everyone saw her presented with her visitation. I once lost a cousin that died in a very horrific way that left scars, but even he looked more presentable and at peace upon his viewing, so maybe that’s factoring in to why I don’t understand why my mom looked so mad and in pain when I saw her body. Everything happened so fast so I suppose if the funeral home had more time it’s possible that she could’ve looked more presentable, so maybe I’m just being too harsh in my grief and not understanding all the stuff behind the scenes. I honestly don’t know. At the end of the day I’m still grateful that I was able to see her one last time despite the sudden change of plans to cremate her.
Frequently Asked Questions About Havenbrook Funeral Home
Do I have to make different funeral arrangements if I choose cremation?
It really depends entirely on how you wish to commemorate a life. One of the advantages of cremation is that it provides you with increased flexibility when you make your funeral and cemetery arrangements. You might, for example, choose to have a funeral service before the cremation; a memorial service at the time of cremation or after the cremation with the urn present; or a committal service at the final disposition of cremated remains. Funeral or memorial services can be held in a place of worship, a funeral home or in a crematory chapel.
What can be done with the cremated remains?
With cremation, your options are numerous. The cremains can be interred in a cemetery plot, i.e., earth burial, retained by a family member, usually in an urn, scattered on private property, or at a place that was significant to the deceased. (It would always be advisable to check for local regulations regarding scattering in a public place-your funeral director can help you with this.)
Today, there are many different types of memorial options from which to choose. Memorialization is a time-honored tradition that has been practiced for centuries. A memorial serves as a tribute to a life lived and provides a focal point for remembrance, as well as a record for future generations. The type of memorial you choose is a personal decision.
What is memorialization for a cremation?
You might choose ground burial of the urn. If so, you may usually choose either a bronze memorial or monument. Cremation niches in columbariums are also available at many cemeteries. They offer the beauty of a mausoleum setting with the benefits of above ground placement of remains. Many cemeteries also offer scattering gardens. This area of a cemetery offers the peacefulness of a serene garden where family and friends can come and reflect.
Can we scatter the cremated remains?
If you wish to have your ashes scattered somewhere, it is important to discuss your wishes to be scattered ahead of time with the person or persons who will actually have to do the cremation ashes scattering ceremony, as they might want to let your funeral professional assist in the scattering ceremony. Funeral directors can also be very helpful in creating a meaningful and personal ash scattering ceremony that they will customize to fit your families specific desires. The services can be as formal or informal as you like. Scattering services can also be public or private. Again, it is advisable to check for local regulations regarding scattering in a public place-your funeral director can help you with this.
If I am cremated, can I be buried with my spouse even if he or she was in a casket?
Yes — Depending upon the cemetery's policy, you may be able to save a grave space by having the cremains buried on top of the casketed remains of your spouse, or utilize the space provided next to him/her. Many cemeteries allow for multiple cremated remains to be interred in a single grave space.
What do I need to know about income tax when I lose a spouse?
Uncertainty about income tax issues can add to the stress experienced from the death of a spouse. You should meet with your family attorney and/or tax advisor as soon as possible to review your particular tax and estate circumstances. Bring a detailed list of your questions to the meeting. If you do not have an attorney or tax advisor, call the IRS toll-free at 800-829-1040 for answers to specific tax questions.
Do I need to arrange a different funeral if I opt for cremation?
You have flexibility with cremation; you can hold services before, during, or after cremation, such as funeral or memorial services, in various venues including funeral homes, chapels, or places of worship.
What options are available for handling cremated remains?
Cremated remains can be buried, retained in an urn, scattered on private property or significant locations, with memorial choices including bronze memorials, monuments, columbarium niches, or scattering gardens at cemeteries.
What types of memorialization are available for cremation?
Options include ground burial of urns with bronze memorials or monuments, placement in columbarium niches within mausoleum settings, or using scattering gardens in cemeteries for peaceful remembrance.
Is scattering cremated remains permitted and how is it typically handled?
Scattering is allowed but should comply with local regulations. Funeral directors can assist with personalized scattering ceremonies that can be formal or informal, and private or public.
Can cremated remains be buried alongside a casketed spouse?
Yes, depending on cemetery policies, cremated remains may be buried in the same plot as a casketed spouse, either on top or adjacent, with multiple cremated remains allowed in one space.
What should I know about income tax issues after the loss of a spouse?
Consult your family attorney or tax advisor promptly to discuss your situation. If needed, contact the IRS at 800-829-1040 for specific tax questions.
What are the operating hours of Havenbrook Funeral Home?
Havenbrook Funeral Home is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week, including Federal Holidays.
What payment methods does Havenbrook Funeral Home accept?
They accept American Express, Cash, Discover, MasterCard, and Visa for payment.
How can nearby services like Brookhaven Extensive Care and Ignite Medical Resort benefit customers visiting Havenbrook Funeral Home?
Customers may find Brookhaven Extensive Care and Ignite Medical Resort useful for rehabilitation and therapy needs, providing support for families coping with health and recovery alongside funeral plans.
What local amenities are available near Havenbrook Funeral Home for visitors?
Nearby amenities include Phillips 66 Gas for convenience needs, Pub W for dining, and various financial services like TaxMax and banks, offering ease for visitors attending services.
Are there assisted living or senior care facilities near Havenbrook Funeral Home?
Yes, Rambling Oaks Assisted Living and Luxe Life Senior Living and Memory Care are nearby, providing options for elder care and support for families in the area.