Oakmont Memorial Park & Mortuary in Lafayette, California, provides funeral home, burial, veteran, memorialization, cremation, and life celebration services. Call us 24/7.
We host Burial Services that convey both the solemnity of the occasion and the joy that comes from celebrating the life of a dear loved one. We are happy to attend to all aspects of the service, and we invite our guests to linger as long as they wish, fully enjoying a special and intimate time with friends and family. For those who choose it, we also offer Cremation Services; cremation can be a meaningful way in which many families mark the death of a loved one. We also offer services tailored to honor those who are military service members and veterans.
Many customers praised the staff for their kindness, empathy, and support during difficult times, highlighting individuals like Parandis and Lindsey for their exceptional service.
Professionalism
The staff was frequently described as professional and attentive, ensuring that all arrangements were handled with care and respect.
Beautiful Facilities
Customers appreciated the well-maintained and peaceful environment of Oakmont Memorial Park, noting its beauty and tranquility.
Communication Issues
Some reviews pointed out problems with communication and responsiveness, particularly regarding follow-ups and coordination of services.
Mixed Experiences
While many reviews were positive, there were also several negative experiences reported, particularly related to customer service and specific incidents.
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jesse moore
Dec 31, 2025
5.0
The service was perfect and honored our father beautifully. Every detail was handled with care and professionalism. Lindsey listened to our requests, ensured everything was fulfilled, and did so with care and compassion in such a difficult time for our family. Oakmont will be our go-to for any future services
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Carol Freitas
Dec 21, 2025
5.0
My family members and I used Oakmont following the passing of our mother. We wanted to thank your staff and Philip S. for the warm and caring way we were helped throughout the emotionally difficult process. We'd be more than happy to recommend Philip and Oakmont to others in need following the loss of a loved one. Thank you again for assisting our family through one of the most difficult times of our lives.
Carol F and family
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Maria Ray
Dec 19, 2025
5.0
We have many family members laid to rest at this beautiful location... Spoke with Philip to help a friend plan their final resting place and he helped us get in touch with Bellen, Nicole and Eduardo. The four of them couldn't have been more wonderful and awesome. It's such a sensitive subject, and they made the whole process so much easier. Thank you Oakmont!!!
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Daniel Wandres
Dec 8, 2025
5.0
We would like to commend Ms. Parandis Banifatemi, who provided us with professional, compassionate, and excellent care during a very difficult time in the pre-planning for the funeral of a family member. Thank you, Parandis.
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mollysch10
Dec 5, 2025
5.0
From the moment I first spoke with Belen Alvarez, she has been incredibly helpful and supportive during this difficult time. She returned phone calls and texts promptly and guided my sons and I through the whole process like we were her family. The way she handled the service was so personal and caring. She offered us many options to find the perfect place to rest our beloved family member. She took care of the permit and came by our house to pick up the ashes. The day of service, she was so professional and yet personal. I will always be grateful. She does everything from her heart. We are so blessed to know her and have her being part of this journey.
Frequently Asked Questions About Oakmont Memorial Park
What do I do when a death occurs?
The funeral home will help coordinate arrangements with the cemetery.
Bring the following information to complete the State vital statistic requirements:
✓ Birthplace
✓ Father's Name
✓ Mother's Name
✓ Social Security Number
✓ Veteran's Discharge or Claim Number
✓ Education
✓ Marital Status
Contact your clergy. Decide on time and place of funeral or memorial service. This can be done at the funeral home.
The funeral home will assist you in determining the number of copies of the death certificates you will be needing and can order them for you.
Make a list of immediate family, close friends and employer or business colleagues. Notify each by phone.
Decide on appropriate memorial to which gifts may be made (church, hospice, library, charity or school).
Gather obituary information you want to include such as age, place of birth, cause of death, occupation, college degrees, memberships held, military service , outstanding work, list of survivors in immediate family. Include time and place of services. The funeral home will normally write article and submit to newspapers (newspaper will accept picture and they will be returned intact).
Arrange for members of family or close friends to take turns answering door or phone, keeping careful record of calls. If Social Security checks are automatic deposit, notify the bank of the death.
When I call, will someone come right away?
If you request immediate assistance, yes. If the family wishes to spend a short time with the deceased to say good-bye, that’s perfectly acceptable. Your funeral director will come when your time is right.
Should I choose Burial or Cremation?
Burial in a casket is the most common method of disposing of remains in the United States, although entombment also occurs. Cremation is increasingly selected because it can be less expensive and allows for the memorial service to be held at a more convenient time in the future when relatives and friends can come together.
A funeral service followed by cremation need not be any different from a funeral service followed by a burial. Usually, cremated remains are placed in urn before being committed to a final resting place. The urn may be buried, placed in an indoor or outdoor mausoleum or columbarium, or interred in a special urn garden that many cemeteries provide for cremated remains. The remains may also be scattered, according to state law.
What is the purpose of embalming?
Embalming sanitizes and preserves the body. Embalming makes it possible to lengthen the time between death and the final disposition, allowing family members time to arrange and participate in the type of service most comforting to them.
Does a dead body have to be embalmed, according to law?
The Federal Trade Commission says, "Except in certain special cases, embalming is not required by law. Embalming may be necessary, however, if you select certain funeral arrangements, such as a funeral with viewing. If you do not want embalming, you usually have the right to choose an arrangement that does not require you to pay for it, such as direct cremation or immediate burial."
What steps should I take immediately when a death occurs?
Contact the funeral home to coordinate cemetery arrangements and bring vital information such as birthplace, parents' names, social security number, and more to complete state requirements. They will assist with funeral or memorial services, death certificates, obituaries, and notifications.
Is immediate assistance available when I call the funeral home?
Yes, immediate assistance is available if requested. The funeral director will come at a time that respects your wishes, whether you prefer immediate attention or some time to say goodbye.
Should I choose burial or cremation for the disposition of remains?
Burial is the most common method, but cremation is becoming popular due to cost savings and flexible service timing. Cremated remains can be placed in an urn for burial, mausoleum, columbarium, or scattered per state law.
What is the purpose of embalming and is it legally required?
Embalming preserves and sanitizes the body, allowing more time between death and final disposition for comforting services. By law, embalming isn't usually required unless specific arrangements like viewing are chosen.
What services does Oakmont Memorial Park offer?
They provide funeral home, burial, memorialization, cremation, veteran, and life celebration services with attention to both solemnity and celebration of life. Services are available 24/7 with tailored honors for military members and veterans.
What are the operating hours of Oakmont Memorial Park?
Oakmont Memorial Park is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week, allowing families and visitors to access services at any time.
What payment options are accepted at Oakmont Memorial Park?
They accept American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa, and financing options to accommodate different payment needs.
Are Oakmont Memorial Park's facilities accessible for individuals with disabilities?
Yes, the park has wheelchair-accessible entrances, parking, and unisex restrooms to ensure accessibility for all guests.
Which nearby cemeteries can I visit along with Oakmont Memorial Park?
Nearby cemeteries include Queen of Heaven Catholic Cemetery & Mortuary and Queen of Heaven Cemetery & Funeral Center, offering additional options for remembrance and services.
How can nearby religious organizations assist visitors to Oakmont Memorial Park?
Places like Landings Oakland Diocese and Buddha Gate Monastery provide spiritual support and community services for visitors, which may complement memorial or funeral activities.
What recreational or community facilities are close to Oakmont Memorial Park for visitors?
Grayson Woods Golf Course and the Youth Retreat Center are nearby, offering community engagement and relaxation options for visitors before or after their visit to the memorial park.