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Oakmont Memorial Park & Mortuary in Lafayette, California, provides funeral home, burial, veteran, memorialization, cremation, and life celebration services. Call us 24/7.
We host Burial Services that convey both the solemnity of the occasion and the joy that comes from celebrating the life of a dear loved one. We are happy to attend to all aspects of the service, and we invite our guests to linger as long as they wish, fully enjoying a special and intimate time with friends and family. For those who choose it, we also offer Cremation Services; cremation can be a meaningful way in which many families mark the death of a loved one. We also offer services tailored to honor those who are military service members and veterans.
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What are people saying?
AI-generated from recent customer reviews
Compassionate Care
Customers consistently praised the staff for their empathy, kindness, and professionalism during difficult times.
Communication
Many reviews highlighted the proactive communication and transparency from staff, although some noted issues with responsiveness.
Facility Quality
The cemetery and facilities were frequently described as beautiful, well-maintained, and peaceful, contributing to a positive experience.
Service Coordination
Several customers appreciated the seamless coordination between staff members, which helped ease the planning process.
Mixed Experiences
While many reviews were positive, there were notable complaints regarding customer service, particularly related to communication and billing issues.
- DWDon White2 days ago5.0Oakmont Memorial Park provided a wonderful plot and detailed education and good service. My family decided to plan ahead (I highly recommend planning ahead) so we were not overwhelmed by grief while trying to find a family plot and understand all the details involved. The people who worked with us were top notch. Dan Desimone and Parandis Banifatemi were both excellent. The mortuary business is complex because it is highly regulated so there is a lot of paperwork but Dan and Parandis did most of the heavy lifting. Prices are a little higher than other places but the property and attention to detail insure that everything is done properly and will leave a lasting legacy. Many thanks to Dan and Parandis and Oakmont Memorial Park!
- PLPeter LuccheseNov 11, 20255.0They had everything ready. Plus l was even late with the Priest . Everything was set up things looked great. Plus everything was so smooth.
- JCJanice CastagniniNov 10, 20255.0Oakmont really guided me through a very painful process. They have been there for me during and after my loss.
- HSHunt SOct 16, 20255.0Lindsey and Belen provided outstanding care and leadership for my family following my grandmother’s passing. From the first call, they set clear expectations, outlined timelines, and communicated next steps without jargon. They coordinated resources, arranged ample time for private viewings, and consistently accommodated unique requests with calm, solution-focused professionalism. Every interaction reflected empathy, respect, and attention to detail. What stood out most was their proactive communication and transparency. Costs and options were presented plainly, without pressure. When small, last-minute changes came up, they handled them quickly and discreetly, ensuring our family’s wishes were honored. Our family has deep roots at Oakmont Memorial Park, and this experience reaffirmed our trust in the team. The coordination between Lindsey, Belen, and cemetery staff was seamless, scheduling, logistics, and on-site guidance were managed so we could focus on being together. Facilities were prepared and immaculate, and the staff’s presence was supportive yet unobtrusive.
- NNNegineOct 4, 20255.0The best experience I could possibly have, and hugely because of Ms. Parandis Banifatemi. From the beginning until the very end, she was warm, thoughtful, very responsive and patient for helping my siblings and I find the perfect resting place, marker for our family member. She was the reason we decided to go with Oakmont Cemetery after visiting other places as we felt well taken care of and heard from the beginning. Losing a loved one is the most challenging thing to experience, and with Parandis warmth, patience and answering all of our many questions, she helped to honor the memory of our loved one by helping us achieve the ideal location, and customized design for her resting place. Thank you so much Parandis, our family really appreciates your empathy, kindness, and hard work. Our hearts feel very full.
Frequently Asked Questions About Oakmont Memorial Park
What do I do when a death occurs?
The funeral home will help coordinate arrangements with the cemetery.
Bring the following information to complete the State vital statistic requirements:
✓ Birthplace
✓ Father's Name
✓ Mother's Name
✓ Social Security Number
✓ Veteran's Discharge or Claim Number
✓ Education
✓ Marital Status
Contact your clergy. Decide on time and place of funeral or memorial service. This can be done at the funeral home.
The funeral home will assist you in determining the number of copies of the death certificates you will be needing and can order them for you.
Make a list of immediate family, close friends and employer or business colleagues. Notify each by phone.
Decide on appropriate memorial to which gifts may be made (church, hospice, library, charity or school).
Gather obituary information you want to include such as age, place of birth, cause of death, occupation, college degrees, memberships held, military service , outstanding work, list of survivors in immediate family. Include time and place of services. The funeral home will normally write article and submit to newspapers (newspaper will accept picture and they will be returned intact).
Arrange for members of family or close friends to take turns answering door or phone, keeping careful record of calls. If Social Security checks are automatic deposit, notify the bank of the death.
When I call, will someone come right away?
If you request immediate assistance, yes. If the family wishes to spend a short time with the deceased to say good-bye, that’s perfectly acceptable. Your funeral director will come when your time is right.
Should I choose Burial or Cremation?
Burial in a casket is the most common method of disposing of remains in the United States, although entombment also occurs. Cremation is increasingly selected because it can be less expensive and allows for the memorial service to be held at a more convenient time in the future when relatives and friends can come together.
A funeral service followed by cremation need not be any different from a funeral service followed by a burial. Usually, cremated remains are placed in urn before being committed to a final resting place. The urn may be buried, placed in an indoor or outdoor mausoleum or columbarium, or interred in a special urn garden that many cemeteries provide for cremated remains. The remains may also be scattered, according to state law.
What is the purpose of embalming?
Embalming sanitizes and preserves the body. Embalming makes it possible to lengthen the time between death and the final disposition, allowing family members time to arrange and participate in the type of service most comforting to them.
Does a dead body have to be embalmed, according to law?
The Federal Trade Commission says, "Except in certain special cases, embalming is not required by law. Embalming may be necessary, however, if you select certain funeral arrangements, such as a funeral with viewing. If you do not want embalming, you usually have the right to choose an arrangement that does not require you to pay for it, such as direct cremation or immediate burial."
What steps should I take immediately when a death occurs?
Contact the funeral home to coordinate cemetery arrangements and bring vital information such as birthplace, parents' names, social security number, and more to complete state requirements. They will assist with funeral or memorial services, death certificates, obituaries, and notifications.
Is immediate assistance available when I call the funeral home?
Yes, immediate assistance is available if requested. The funeral director will come at a time that respects your wishes, whether you prefer immediate attention or some time to say goodbye.
Should I choose burial or cremation for the disposition of remains?
Burial is the most common method, but cremation is becoming popular due to cost savings and flexible service timing. Cremated remains can be placed in an urn for burial, mausoleum, columbarium, or scattered per state law.
What is the purpose of embalming and is it legally required?
Embalming preserves and sanitizes the body, allowing more time between death and final disposition for comforting services. By law, embalming isn't usually required unless specific arrangements like viewing are chosen.
What services does Oakmont Memorial Park offer?
They provide funeral home, burial, memorialization, cremation, veteran, and life celebration services with attention to both solemnity and celebration of life. Services are available 24/7 with tailored honors for military members and veterans.
What are the operating hours of Oakmont Memorial Park?
Oakmont Memorial Park is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week, allowing families and visitors to access services at any time.
What payment options are accepted at Oakmont Memorial Park?
They accept American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa, and financing options to accommodate different payment needs.
Are Oakmont Memorial Park's facilities accessible for individuals with disabilities?
Yes, the park has wheelchair-accessible entrances, parking, and unisex restrooms to ensure accessibility for all guests.
Which nearby cemeteries can I visit along with Oakmont Memorial Park?
Nearby cemeteries include Queen of Heaven Catholic Cemetery & Mortuary and Queen of Heaven Cemetery & Funeral Center, offering additional options for remembrance and services.
How can nearby religious organizations assist visitors to Oakmont Memorial Park?
Places like Landings Oakland Diocese and Buddha Gate Monastery provide spiritual support and community services for visitors, which may complement memorial or funeral activities.
What recreational or community facilities are close to Oakmont Memorial Park for visitors?
Grayson Woods Golf Course and the Youth Retreat Center are nearby, offering community engagement and relaxation options for visitors before or after their visit to the memorial park.